Category: Singles Spit Swap
Hi. I'm looking for a girl who likes music and intteligent conversation. Short and small with long hair is a plus... No ghetto types or ultra religious types please. You have to like rock music and guitar because that's my main gig man... If you want to know more about me, either aim me or check out my profile for more info. Laters...
well i am short and over weight and have short hair that i am letting grow back out and of course i like music
Ya know? What's wrong with tall girls? Lol, I mean, seriously guys always like short ones, lol.
If I have to get up on my tip toes to make out with a girl, then she's too tall for me! Ha! No, there is nothing wrong with tall girls. I just prefer shorter ones. It'd depend on the person most of all though EG; personality and all that.
Well, what do you think about 5-7 and 125 pounds eh?
I could manage that...
Well, I'm not altra-religious: those who are, drive me insane. I am especially offended by those who are avidly intent on force feeding their ideals and beliefs to anyone that they can sink their claws into. I certainly wouldn't classify myself as a ghetto type. I prefer it when pants are not worn such that they show off one's underwear, I am not a fan of ensambles that include nose rings, chains, or large amounts of pleather, and I abhor rap music, which isn't even truly music in the first place. I love music of all kinds, and although my top choices would be opera, classical, new-age, broadway and world music, I also love classic rock, heavy metal, jazz, disco, and some country, christian contemporary and pop, especially from the mid fifties through the early nineties. As for intelligent conversation, I love to debate and discuss, politics, literature, current events, music, human rights issues, animals, some sports, and of course the theatre and the Bard. I think you're tough out of luck though on the score of weight and hight. I'm moderatly tall, at five foot six, and I'm certainly not skinny, although I am not in terrible shape. I can lift a large German Shepard or Husky onto the examination table at the vet's office, carry my best friends Kait and Mike on my back during weight baring and weight sharing excersizes, haul a large cello case around town, and I run up and down multiple flights of stairs at Eastman on a dayly basis, late for this or that class. I don't have extreemly long hair, but I have had in the past, and am currently in the proccess of growing it out. I don't think that I'm especially good looking, often criticizing myself if not snapped out of it by my friends, but I truly think that my hair is beautiful. It's very thick and healthy. I don't use any sort of styling jells, hair sprays or leave in mousse. I don't blow dry my hair, color it, or perm it. I avoid chlorine when possible, and take very good care of my hair. I think that it's the one feature that I actually take pride in. It's a very deep rich chestnut brown, in some lights appearing almost black, with some warmer tones in natural highlights of reds and golds. I love to cook, and in most cases am rather proficient at it. I love to sing, attend concerts and plays of all kinds, read, and study languages, music and literature. I also love children of all ages and all sorts of animals. If you found this to be even remotely interesting, then I'm gratified, as I bore or intimidate most people, that or strike them as just a bit too strange. if you want to chat or to get to know me better, as a friend, or as more, feel free to do so. I'm always looking for new friends and interesting people to talk to, and I don't bite, usually. See you around.
best of luck to you man, i hope you find a girl.
I don't hope I find just a girl. I want to find the right girl. There is a big difference! But thanks anyways man.
I'm going to have to agree with Cam on that one!! there is a huge difference.
Yeah, there definetly is!
I'm going to ask the question, or at least if not "the" question, one of the top few questions that women would love to have answered right upfront. What do you want in a relationship? You say you aren't just looking for a girl, so what are you looking for? Basically, are you eventually looking for a candidate for marriage, are you interested in oneday having children, how soon do you expect to sleep with the person you find, and how soon do you plan to live with them, would you like them to cook, clean, read, or work for you, would there be any special expectations related to your lifestyle or career, such as having to appear frequently at high society gatherings, being in the public eye, taking phone calls at all hours of the night from your friends, family, students or coworkers?
Posing such a question at this point, and on a public forum was most probably an encredibly stupid thing to do, but if you want the God's honest truth, most women would like to know right upfront what is expected and desired. Some times I go out on limbs, and some times they break, and sometimes when they break I land on nice soft grass underneeth, but sometimes I land on piles of really pointy rocks. No pressure to answer any of that admittedly long question, and there are, of course, no wrong answers, as everybody is different and everybody is looking for something else, and someone else, to fit in the differently and uniquely shaped nitches in their highly diversified lives.
Okay. wow! That's a lot of questions in one shot! Anyways, I'll answer some of them. I want a girl who is smart, funny, beautiful, horny, and adventurous etc. I want to eventually marry and have a family yes. I would expect my partner to contribute to the cooking and cleaning and laundry etc, not do all of it though! I am a pretty good cook. Splitting the bills and rent would also be a must. I would be interested in living with somebody before marriage, like a girlfriend, definetly. As far as what I want in a relationship, I want it all. I want someone I can talk to about anything, have a real connection with, someone to share my art with, someone to hold at night and someone to make passionitte love to a couple times a day... I will be famous one day and have a large amount of money and a big house etc. I would not expect my partner to fully be involved in the things that lifestyle requires but I don't want traler trash either if that makes sense. I want someone who would listen to a whole rush album with me and then go to a classical piano recital for example. Someone who is well rounded and lively. Fun, honest, open, and sexy. And, a girl who likes a back massage. I'm sure I'm missing some things out but that's a start! Any other questions, feel free to post. and for all of the ladies out there who might meet my standards, sorry but there is only one of me... Good luck.
Wow, not bad, but hmmm, I dunno...
hmmm, well i'm really really into music. i play the piano and flute, no guitar though. i'm 95 pounds and 5-2
i think i'll work. lol
lol yvonne!
Oh I forgot to mention that. I would expect her to have a job!
and what wouldyou have to offer said girl? I mean SHe sounds like she's got to be something prety special. So what would make her go for a guy like you cam? come on sell yourself to all the single zone girls.
Okay, you asked for it puggle. Ahem. Start of shameless self promotion! I'm smart and cultured, attractive, well rounded, caring and sweet, funny, and am multi talented. I am an interesting person, I speak my mind, I'm honest, I give one hell of a back massage, and unlike a lot of guys, I can do all of the following: I can cook well, change a tire, sail, I have no trouble taking care of/looking after children or pets, I enjoy learning and broadening my horizons, etc. I love jazz and classical music as much as I love blues, metal, fusion, and rock etc. I sing and play four instruments. I would much rather spend the night in cuddling with a girl, drinking champaigne and watching a film than go out drinking with the lads. Hmmmmm. I don't like sports much, the club and bar thing is not my scene, unless I am playing a gig of course, I am not a thug, I am not a hick, etc. I am finishing up university right now but have worked in the past as a sound engineer and teacher. I still teach guitar and assistive technology part time. I guess that's all for now. Any further questions, please ask.
well girls? he's yours for the taking!
Hmmm. I'm trying to decide if your supreme confidence, often times boardering on arrogance is sexy, or annoying. I suppose it's a little of both, with the balance shifting back and forth between sexy and annoying depending on the mood of the one with whom you are interacting. Totally off topic here, but you mentioned Guitar lessons. I might be interested. And, no I am not using the term Guitar lessons as a metaphor for sex, rofl. I once asked an Eastman student if he would be willing to give me cello lessons, and he ran as fast as he could in the opposit dirrection. I later found out from a mutual friend that he thought I was asking for a lot more than cello lessons. Ah well, that's the language barrier for you. He spoke primarily Russian. lol. If I could get my hands on a used guitar, could you give me lessons over the phone, or reccomend someone in this area who could give relatively inexpensive lessons? Oh, and by all means, go for the self promotion. If it's all true, then why not share with the group. I'm sure that well over fifty percent of the girls on the zone are now forming a mob to come and break down your door, drag you off to their newly formed cult, and do all sorts of wicked things to you, before they all get jealous of one another and begin fighting amungst them selves. I think I hear them coming now! Head for the hills!
Seriously, he's not bad looking, however, I don't know why I am looking on here, ah yes I do know why, lol, but I will never tell anyways. My stats are in my profile if you really want to know what I look like.
Yes yes yes. I am aware that now I will be getting voice mails and letters and e mails and things like that from every girl on here. it's all good though. There is nothing I can't handle so bring it on! Anyways, regarding my confidence, well, hey, that's just how it is. I am not some wuss bag desperate for other's approval. I do my thing and if you dig it, great. And, if you don't, that's cool too. regarding the guitar lessons, yes we can work something out. get in touch with me privately.
Don't worry, confiddance is good, at least in my book. I can dig it. rofl
wow! Why can't there be more guys like you?
good luck finding that very very lucky girl.
I could ask the same question of the girls. I think a lot of it is due to the fact that many people have issues with self promotion.
Agreed Chris. It's the self promotion with what makes people take a good look at you.
Yes. Exactly. It doesn't matter how good what you have to offer is if nobody knows about it!
Ok, I just re-read through these board posts. So, you're attractive? Your voice is very nice. Aw, who the hell am I kidding: it's down right sexy. But, why don't you tell us all what you look like? Height, weight, skin, hair and eye color, approximate build, some of your especially good features, IE, hands, facial features, feet, bum, shoulders. Fill us in. Oh, and you also said that you play four instruments, now, what would they be? Guitar, obviously, but what else? One last quandry: now, we all know how sexually experienced and confident you are, and I'm not saying that that is a bad thing, but what would you be looking for, as far as age and sexual experiance goes? Yeah, I know that's a terribly bold, and blunt question, but I can't be the only one on here who wants to know the answer.
Okay. More shameless self promotion! hahaha! I'm white, not much of a tan at all, blue eyes, dark blond hair, which is pretty long, I'm in the process of growing it out right now. Average build but quite strong. Clean complexion, one piercing, in my left ear, that's all. I play three tyeps of guitar, I also play bass guitar, drum set, piano and keyboard/synth. I also sing. As for the sexual experience, I don't mind teaching at all. I prefer little to no experience but an adventurous mind. The fewer partners the lucky girl has before me, the better. Any STDs or drug problems though and you can count on me not sleeping with you. I hope that answers those questions for everybody out there! Any further queries, please feel free to post them here.
Oh yeah... I forgot about age. 18 to 26 max. But if you aren't quality material and/or you're inmature, don't count on anything happening long term. Also, i am good at spotting liars etc.
How long do you want your hair? I love longer hair on a guy. Shaved heads are a real turn off for me, as are buzz cuts. No military men for me then. rofl Do vergins scare you away? That is to say, can you deal with the added responsibility that taking one implies, in addition to the increased risk of emotional outbursts and closer attachment on the girls part? Are you prepared to deal with a girl who might after her first time start crying for no apparent reason, even if the sex was great. Are you ready to deal with being given such a precious gift? And, do you view it as such? A more creative question for you: if you could be played like an instrument, during love making, what would you prefer to be? How would you play a girl? Example, a violin, a piano, trumpet, recorder, obo, or clarinet. Not looking for grafic description here, show us your poetic side. I know it's hiding in there somewhere.
I want my hair quite long. Virgins do not scare me off. In fact I prefer them sometimes. It depends on the girl. some I would play like a piano, others like a cello.
Jesus Christ...The two new yorkers on this topic are goin' at it loudly, back and forth. Well, Best of luck to you. Reading these posts is well...interesting, to say the least. Beep out!
Hahahaha!
rofl
Wow Cam, an I thought I knew you, rofl
Does anybody have any other questions? hahaha! It's all good...
What is the real meaning of life, and what is the largest number in the universe, or multiverse for that matter? lol You did ask if we had any other questions...
OOO! OOO! Can I answer this one? The real and true meaning of life is music, and the largest number in the multiverse is zero. X is also acceptable.
Wow! Hmmmm. I'll agree with that!
Yay, someone agrees with me, that is to say, aside from my cat and my reflection. Even they disagree with me on occasion.
After an enjoyable weekend, I am now dating heavy metal girl. So, I am no longer single. (I appoligize to every girl worthwhile out there. There is only one of me after all to go around...) That being said, we can still discuss things on this board if anybody has any unanswered questions; for curiosity's sake...
best of luck to you and her!
Yeah. thanks. I hope it works out.
Best wishes.
Thanks.
hey, congradulations on your new girlfriend.
hope you two have a healthy relationship.
Thanks.
Wow, this board has grown rather boring. Oh, wait, I have an idea. As you were so successful in your endeavors, why don't you start a dating counsilor theme on this board. A sort of a male match maker. Hell, it could be fun. You could mess with all of the other zoners' heads, and maybe even help some people out. Then again, maybe not. rofl
Yeah it has grown rather boring, which I am somewhat disapointed about. Anyways, I have thought of that. I can usually give very good advice on relationships and sex etc.